Those of you who have been following my work have heard me speak of this before. In fact, there is an older blog post where I talk about the “mammalian brain” and why we dislike change. But transformation is all about change.
This week, in the private Summer of Transformation facebook group, I witnessed women doing what women do best: support, share wisdom, love and care for each other – and they don’t even “know” each other outside of this group. I was truly blown away by what a virtual support group can do and by the power of women. We’ve already witnessed breakthroughs and “aha’s” and the program hasn’t even started. And, as one woman put it “Never underestimate the power of a group of like-minded women on a mission!” I may put that on my desk! These like-minded women are on a mission of transformation!
So, as this summer is all about transformation for me and my group of fabulous women (and a few cool guys!) I want to send you some encouragement.
Those moments when it feels too difficult, scary or uncomfortable are the moments to embrace! Believe it or not, those are the moments of great teaching, growth and inspiration. And because change is uncomfortable and we seek the security of doing things the same way, even if it’s not the best thing for us, we often need those trying moments to give us the push and the energy — the momentum — to manifest true change.
We are given these lessons time and again, until we learn them, so you might as well take this opportunity to grow and let go. Because, guess what? You asked for the lesson on some level, and you’re going to have to live through these moments over and over again, until you “get it.” How about now?
When you get to the other side of it, you will be amazed at how joyful life can become. But if you can, try not to just slog through it. Try to be a witness to your own growth. Live each moment as consciously as you can. And, treat yourself as you would any child who is learning and growing: with loving compassion.
So yeah, change is uncomfortable. Lean into it, and see what doors open for you. The Universe has much bigger ideas for us than we could have ever dreamed of. And remember, as one door closes, another opens. Allow the shift and change to take place, and have faith that you are on the right path. The more you stay present and aware of this moment, the faster and greater the growth. And stop looking at the closed doors. See who or what is waiting for you at the next door.
And, learn to love change, just a bit more. When you embrace all that life is, life embraces you back.
